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Lost Art

Lost Art

Celebrating birthdays growing up in Suffern, New York, were always bittersweet. Bitter because of my mother. And sweet because of my mother. Let me explain. I know many people claim that their mamas are the best cooks in the world, but my mother, who is 100% Italian,...

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Life’s Math

Life’s Math

I hated math growing up. And hated just about every math teacher I’ve ever had. Maybe because I’m dyslexic and it’s not fun looking at a bunch of numbers that are dancing around. Maybe it’s because I failed or barely passed just about every math class I had ever...

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What Comes Around

What Comes Around

I remember when I was 14 years old and I begged my father to take me skiing at Mt. Peter, a small ski mountain upstate New York in Warwick. I first started to ski when I was 13 and became obsessed with the slopes. I wanted to ski every chance I could get. Fast forward...

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Ruthless

Ruthless

If I received a dollar for every time someone asked me, “What is your greatest advice?”, I’d be a wealthy man. Parents want to share the answer to this question with their children, husbands with their wives and vice versa, friends with their neighbors, and leaders...

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Blessed AND Grateful

Blessed AND Grateful

Pictured: Meet the father (figuratively and literally) and grandfather of Heart-Led Leadership – my dad Tom Spaulding, Sr. This week friends, my message is simple: Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family! May you be as blessed and grateful as I am for all the many...

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Got Your Back

Got Your Back

On Friday, I called Cathy DeGraff on her business line this past Friday at 5 p.m. for the very last time. Cathy DeGraff, has been my business manager, executive director of our National Leadership Academy and Global Youth Leadership Academy, and chief operating...

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Give Until it Hurts

Give Until it Hurts

I heard years ago that when we give to others we should “give until it hurts.” It took me half a lifetime to fully understand those words – give until it hurts. I’ve learned there is a difference between giving and giving until it hurts. A big difference. One makes...

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Influence Compass

Influence Compass

My ghost writer Matthew Sharpe and I were locked in a conference room at the Grand Hyatt New York City a couple weeks ago spending hours and hours talking about the topic of my next book — Influence.   “What’s the definition of influence?”, Matthew kept asking me.   ...

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SUCK – SUCK – SUCK

SUCK – SUCK – SUCK

I'm on a plane with my eleven-year old son, Tate, heading home after a long weekend hockey tournament in Nashville.  I didn't say I was sitting next to my son...thanks to Southwest Airline's open seating policy...Tate chose to sit in the back of the plane with his...

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